Jennifer Whalen, a 39 year old mother of three from rural Pennsylvania, is serving a 9-18 month jail sentence for purchasing and dispensing abortion-causing medications to help her teenage daughter abort an unplanned pregnancy.
The case is being used as an example of the lengths that women will go to to end a pregnancy when abortion is not immediately and freely available.
And perhaps it is.
But it’s also an example of just how easy we expect everything to be, and how those expectations are leading us to do things that are really, really stupid.
Because make no mistake. What Whalen did was stupid, irresponsible and dangerous.
Abortion is legal in Pennsylvania.
It was available to Whalen’s daughter with parental consent (which she clearly had) at a safe facility 75 miles away. That’s about an hour and 15 minute ride. Not the end of the world.
Yes, Pennsylvania has an absolutely ridiculous law requiring a 24 hour waiting period, meaning Whalen might have had to take time off from work to get her daughter an abortion. Or not – because the abortion facility nearest them has Saturday hours.
And yes, Whalen and her husband had just one car. And no health insurance for the $400 procedure.
I get it.
I really do. This was not going to be something easy.
But this is an abortion. A medical procedure that, while exceedingly safe, needs to be done by someone who knows what they are doing. Whalen, while not a licensed RN as previously reported, works in a healthcare facility as a nurses aide. So I’m sorry, but she should have known better. And I don’t quite buy it that she did not know that buying abortion pills online without a prescription was illegal.
And I won’t get into the ethical issues of aborting your daughter’s pregnancy, but it raises so many concerns about coersion that I know the docs at Geisinger Medical Center were right to report the case to the authorities after Whalen took her daughter to their ER during her induced miscarriage.
So, in case it’s not obvious by now…
I’m not jumping on the “Poor Jennifer Whalen, she had no choice, she was ignorant, she was scammed by online sellers of abortion pills and sent up the river by those mean doctors in the ER” bandwagon.
Yes, I’m pro choice. Yes, I abhor the rash of abortion restrictions being passed by state legislatures across this country. And yes, I truly wish that abortion were freely available at every doctor’s office in every small community everywhere.
But it’s not.
And in this reality we have, parents like Jennifer Whalen have to make choices – to do the right thing, even when it’s the harder thing, or to do what’s easy.
She chose the easy route, and I think by now she knows that she made a bad judgement.
Now, do I think Whalen deserves a 6 month prison sentence?
Of course not.
Whalen was not setting herself up as an abortion provider. She was not selling her services or posing as a health professional.
One time, she purchased medication over the internet for her daughter, who by all accounts took the medication freely and of her own accord. The medication, thankfully, worked as advertised.
But rather than come up with a way to turn this case into something positive for Whalen, her family and the community of women at large, Montour County DA Rebecca Warren and Judge Gary Norton chose instead to criminalize a mother for making the wrong choice in a very tough situation.
Warren says this case is not about Abortion Rights , but about “endangering the welfare of a child“.
Because sending a mother to prison is really good for her children, right?
Talk about bad judgement.